Frequently Asked Questions

Are females welcome?

Yes, females of all orientations are welcome

What can I expect from a session?

All sessions are tailored to the individual.  I expect clients to be honest in their requirements and complete my consultation form in contact section to give me an understanding of your desires.

I am married or worried about disclosure...

Don't worry - what goes in my domain is strictly confidential. As are any details you may disclose in your application or person.
I do expect the same courtesy from you.

I don't like pain

Pain is only one element of BDSM. The primary element in my sessions is sensuality and control. Not all people enjoy the more painful elements as your Mistress I will respect your limits at all times.

I don't want to be marked.... is that a problem?

No - if you tell me that from the start I will not mark you. You should be realistic here in your requirements. There's no point asking to be caned hard and then saying you don't want marks. Some instruments will mark even when used lightly. I do have a range of instruments that will hurt without leaving visible marks.

This is my first time

Whether your experienced or not I can assure you of a fulfilling time. I am very approachable and we can explore your fantasies together.

I have a medical condition - will that make a difference

Not necessarily but again you should be honest in your consultation form so I am aware or your medical history.

What sort of limits and safeguards are there

During role-play sessions I always give you a safe word that tells me you are at your uppermost limit. If you are gagged then we use alternative symbols.

If I use my safe word is that the end of my session

No – I will move onto another game.

I have a fantasy that I would love to
act out but am worried you will laugh or be disgusted

In my wealth of experience I have seen and administered various scenarios, I get pleasure from new and varied inventive requests.

What happens if I don't like what's happening

Use your safe word - that's what its there for!
The safe word can be used when things may not be painful but you just don't like what's happening.

What happens at the end of a session

At the end of the session you will be invited to have a cup of tea or coffee with the Mistress and you may discuss the session and future sessions you may require or anything else that you want. This is a cooling off period before you leave to give you some time to adjust back into the 'normal' world.

Do I get to have sex with the mistress

Absolutely NOT under ANY circumstances. I am a professional dominatrix not a prostitute.

Will you accept female subs and slaves?

Yes - Mistress can offer female subs a range of BDSM session activities. Please contact me for further details.

Can I bring Mistress a present

Yes you may please see my wish list for details.

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